you would be absolutely disgusted Shane with what we have had to sort out today ,in fact you would be have blown your top . A so called friend of yours showed his true colours for sure, but truth be told he only ever was a fair weather friend , and to think he was welcomed into our family for so many years to be treated as we have is pretty appalling . it appears that we cant even honour your memory in peace in our own way ,we are living a nightmare without you, when will certain ones show some respect and leave us alone . love you missing you so much xx mum xx